Dressing And Accessorising For Virtual Dates

We may be
past the strictest parts of a national lockdown, but the dating world has
changed a lot over the last few months, with more and more people eschewing the
idea of playing the field and instead getting to know people better via video
link or socially distanced walks in the park.
These changes look set to stay as people uncover the value in spending
quality time with someone and actually investing time in dating rather than
going straight for a physical attraction, so how do you dress and prepare for a
video date?
Firstly, you
can relax a bit about the prospect of a video date, as it won't be stressful in
the same way as an online business meeting would be – you're both there for a
fun, enjoyable time and not trying to get a project finished before a
deadline. Lots of people are worried
about how they look on camera and on screen, and it can be a bit distracting to
see your face on the screen as well. You
can always use some paper or a sticky note to cover that portion of the screen
if it makes you feel less self-conscious.
Lighting can
make a huge difference to how you look, so why not set up a video call with a
trusted friend and try out different lighting arrangements using natural light
and/or lamps to create the most flattering light you can get. Softly diffused light is usually the most
flattering – that's why the Kardashians always use a ring flash light for their
selfies, as it is non-directional and therefore doesn't cast shadows that might
look unflattering. Try not to light
yourself from the top or side, but more from behind your screen, so your face
is clearly illuminated (this also makes the background seem darker, so if you
haven't had time to tidy up this also deals with the problem of a messy room!).
When choosing
your clothes, think about how you'll be positioned during the video date. If you want to show off your cleavage with a
low cut top, make sure you're not going to be leaning forward too much, or
lying down, as this can skew the perspective and throw you out of
proportion. Long loose sleeves can be
distracting if you're moving around a lot – there's something about webcams
that distorts perspective so when you reach for something behind the camera
your date sees an enlarged arm draped in fabric looming towards them. Choose something comfortable that you won't
be rearranging constantly, and that you feel good in.
Jewellery and
make up are the finishing touches on your outfit, and these accessories can
make a big difference to how you make a first impression. It's a good idea to wear something that is a
matching set so it's more noticeable on camera; our Seductive earrings and
necklace are great for wearing on dates both in person and on camera. Wearing a matching set gives the impression
that you are organised and sophisticated and that you like to look your
best. If you're more of a free spirit or
you have a bold personality, then choose something that reflects these aspects
of your personality. Take care when
wearing large accessories as they can be overwhelming on camera and distracting
for your date. Large rings are
especially best avoided, as if you're typing something then that ring will seem
huge on camera, being closer to the screen, and this can be quite off putting,
taking over the screen and taking attention away from you and what you're
saying. The same goes for bangles which
might tap the screen and keyboard, so stick to necklaces and earrings for video
dates.
You can get
away with a statement necklace, or statement earrings, but going big on both
can look fussy on camera – it's hard to get away with both on a small screen,
whereas in real life these things are all part of the person in a much more
genuine way.
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